I remember being on vacation a few years ago at one of my childhood stomping grounds, Pt. Pleasant N.J. That’s right, the Jersey Shore, that stupid tv show did a fabulous job butchering the reputation of, but anyway….LOL! My grandmother lived near there and we would go to the Shore a lot when we visited, enjoying the ocean and the games and rides on the boardwalk. So I went there to unwind, and then took a tour of New England and even went to NY to visit family and friends. My last day at the beach, I set the alarm for this God awful hour so I could grab the camera and make it to the boardwalk for sunrise. Not a morning person, but it’s for the love of the beach and photography I did this. So I walked up the strip with my camera and a couple different lenses, I think I ended up using my telephoto, 70-200 F4 for this particular image. There were a very few people walking the boardwalk, and I patiently waited for the sunrise.
When I overlooked the jetties and the bay, I saw a man fishing with a net from where I was standing….I thought this would make a perfect silhouette, and I used the same technique as described in last article about metering off the sky. I used F6.3 and 1/160 shutter and 100 iso on this one, and used a lens hood so I wouldn’t get lens flare from the sun off to the side. At the time I shot this photo, I had no idea the significance it would one day have, for someone I didn’t even know yet. This was just a couple of months before I moved to East Nashville and added to the stable of East Nashville artists and photographers there are here, love it by the way! That day at the beach and my vacation came and went. Later, I went to the house I was going to soon move into and went over to meet the next door neighbors. It was a hot afternoon, and I had to ask them if they were ok with me trimming some of the brush that neighbored our back fence lines, so I could clear the way for building a fence for the dogs. They were early 60′s I think, and very nice. They even offered me a Coke and were sitting on their porch steps and listening to a small transistor radio, as if they’ve known me for their whole lives, which was nice to see and rare.
I had moved in a while later and my dogs would always run over there when they were out on their porch, and we talked for a few minutes most every day. The wife, Joyce was retired because of disability, and the man, Al was working part time as a meat cutter but semi retired. So I was thankful to have formed a good relationship with them. I had lived there for maybe a year and Al’s wife had grown ill and unfortunately passed away when in the hospital. Which was sad to see because they were married 40 years or so and both are so nice. Al had worked hard with his sons expanding the deck so they didn’t have to sit on the steps, and painted the inside to surprise her when she came home. Unfortunately she never got to go home again. At the funeral and during the time after, he was having an impossible time adjusting and was very depressed….even my dogs sensed something was wrong. I was concerned for him as of course his family was, and his sons and daughter tried their best to be with him and take him places to help him adjust and work through his pain.
It seemed any words were inadequate, he seemed very reserved. A light bulb came on in my head! He was an avid fisherman and loved the ocean….so I printed a nice 11×14 and framed it, and told him to put it on his bureau or wall and think of what he loves to do. Hoping that would help him somehow…..that was the first time his eyes lit up since Joyce was gone, that I have seen anyhow. I saw it placed on his kitchen counter near where he sat at the table. His sons who were over a lot, even told me how much he liked the photo, and how they liked it as well. I was thinking, how cool! Sadly, a month or so after losing his wife, he suffered an aneurism and passed away at the hospital. I guess grief got the best of him, but at least the company he had made even those hard days better for him. And this photo was somehow included in that mix. At his visitation and funeral, his sons and daughter placed that photo on the wall of other family photos on display. Later, I went on to sell print of this photo at a local art gallery showing, and it may not have the same meaning as it did to them, it still adds color to their walls.
