Many people do not discuss these things that could tie their personal life and beliefs to their business or professional image…..but mine isn’t the ordinary business, and I enjoy a little controversy sometimes! But these principles are something that are not only what I believe, and have found true for my life, but it’s how I live my life and how I run my business. It is also an inspiration for me to create my work, and helps build the relationships I have with people. So I will share this with others and hope someone benefits from it besides me. Spirituality and personal philosophies can go along side or in place of other religious / theological beliefs. In my case, I am a believing Christian, but do not attend church. Reasons are quite simple. I’m not into the sanctimony and politics of the church and it’s people….but I’m not really here to talk about them, or that. These are principles I have applied to my life and put into practice.
Positivity and fighting off the negatives- Nobody is perfect, and I’m not saying we all need to be shiny happy all the time, but the key is to be thankful for what we have, and believe we can do more. There is always someone who has it worse, and often those who do, still find a reason to be happy. Positivity creates energy, and motion. It helps you move forward. Negativity hinders you and holds you back, and keeps you trapped in the past. People pick up on auras we put out…..why not make their day better rather than bring gloom and blase to their day, and perhaps spread it like a disease? Negativity makes excuses why we can’t. It’s those types of people I avoid, when I see they are rejecting my attempts to help them. Positivity finds ways to make upgrades and change to your life, even if starting with small steps. It means tenacity and dedication to get things done.
Integrity and accountability- The obligation to be honest with one another and help build each other up, and inspire others through our work and actions. To me, this means respecting other peoples’ time as well as our own. It’s right to have standards and be professional, and keep your obligations to others. I tend not to waste time on those who do not respect my time. It also means loyalty to our own family and friends, clients, everyone in our circle or strangers. Being open minded about peoples’ differences also helps create this bond. Treating others how you want to be treated is important as well, as karma does play a part in our lives, even if you don’t believe in karma as a religion. It also means admitting when we are wrong, and making our best attempts to be humble and resolve conflicts. When you try to do this with people who have the entitled mentality, or are into scapegoating, blaming their problems on others, etc. they often don’t get it. But by showing them you are different and trying to do the right thing may plant a seed in their lives. Being industrious and hustling, being resourceful, even with limited resources is another huge factor.
Peace with self- Getting swallowed up in the pop culture bullshit, or jealousy of others, isn’t how to achieve this. People get lip injections, fake everything, etc. to like themselves, and often still don’t. There is a time and place for certain things, but the most important changes can come from within. This means frequent reflection and self assessment…..like how you can simplify your life and make it better, did I do the right thing in this situation type of scenarios, etc. Eliminating drama, or harmful situations from your life, frequent evaluation. Some people aren’t worth having for friends, especially if they hinder you rather than support you and you feed off each other. I have found that being more financially responsible and eliminating debt has helped me enjoy life more….also your body is your core. Eating correctly with some special treats is the best way, along with regular exercise, skin care etc. It all helps you be more productive in your life as well as feel better about yourself. Part of adulthood is of course having fun, but also being disciplined and willing to make sacrifices to carry out the plan you set for yourself. No goal, no destination. That self assessment is what helps you realize if you are a moron about certain things, and then to try to change that is possible if you are willing to make those sacrifices. Being open minded enough to accept critique is also good, for personal and professional realms of your life.